Forgiveness vs Forgetting

We can all forgive and we won't forget the memory. IT IS a matter of IF we WANT to FORGIVE or not.

TRUE FORGIVENESS has a neutral vibrant energy. It holds nothing that disempowers us. On the contrary; we feel at peace filled with love and ALIVE.

We can see the memory from a different platform of perspective when we revisit the memory after forgiveness has taken place - it has no power over us any longer but peace and well wishes to the person(s) and acknowledging our win and wisdom from it.

Forgiving is shifting perspectives about the situation; understanding why the person did what they had done and why we did what we had done.

Forgiving is letting go of the attachment to the situation we think 'solely' caused by another person but ourselves/vice versa.

Forgiving is taking responsibility for our role in causing the outcome that created discomfort within us and/or hurt us or others.

Forgiving is understanding we have choices but we chose to be in the situation and hold a particular feeling and we have no control over how others want to think.

Forgiving is seeing the beauty of wisdom that lies from the hurtful situation and feel the total peace and joy that radiates from within.

Forgiving is to LOVE ourselves in mind, body and spirit.

When we have forgiven someone completely from a hurtful experience of the past; we see the situation and the person with a set of new eyes - with truth; gratitude and peace. We can smile with it; laugh with it.

Forgetting is like sweeping things under the carpet. Forgetting offers temporary relief yet it is still there inside with energy that can be revived when circumstances allow that holds the same intensity or worst when it resurfaces.

Forgetting is running away - not having the courage to take responsibility to LOVE ourselves.

Depending on what values have been breached and the length of time that will determine how easy/difficult it is to forgive someone of his/her 'wrong doing' and/or ourselves.

WHAT REAL BENEFITS DOES IT GIVE YOU WHEN YOU ARE NOT FORGIVING?

PEACE BE WITH ALL OF YOU. CHOOSE TO LOVE YOURSELVES!

Published on: Mar 8, 2010 @ 9:42