Identity Crisis

"Be a DOCTOR. You can have a good life, make lots of money, etc!" - mommy said! Sound FAMILIAR?

Most of us were programmed from a very young age that there is a specific mould we need to fit into - to be successful, respected, happy and so forth. Little that we know; with each of those little "unauthentic" imprints imprinted into our "mind map"; we lose our identity that's authentic to us from the day we were formed and brought to life.

As we go through the different stages of our lives; we either build or destroy our authentic identity! Parents play a big role in nurturing their child's "mind map" followed by other "programmers" the child interact with. How we as parents encourage the authenticity of our child will determine if our child would be traumatised with an "identity crisis" or not.

Parents as the adults who "should know better and everything" which is the popular belief of society are in fact most of the time ignorant or clueless of their indirect influence.

Every reaction and action both parents "play" in front of their child is information for the child to process and has an indirect influence on programming and imprinting a specific information or "code" in the child's "mind map"!

If there was much "authentic" love and warmth between the parents - the loving code is programmed.

If there was much "authentic" hardship and complaints - the hardship and nagging code are programmed and so forth.

My question is....

How aware are parents and the "other programmers" of his/her influence? Probably an arguable number! Many of us are unconsciously ignorant!

In the stages where infants are preparing their journey in life on earth, everything is a mystery and everything is TRUTH! They question with PURE CURIOSITY and a PURE MIND. Their minds are super expandable until one imprint after another takes refuge in their minds becoming the ultimate truth until proven otherwise by future experiences.

By the time our minds are cluttered with "unauthentic truths"; we start losing pieces of our authenticity. This in turn leads to confusion and depression. We hit an identity crisis! What now?!

Without the right tools, most people would just spiral down into the deep dungeon of LOST land with no free pass to return.

Just like in computer systems; when a programmer writes a code for a system - if everything was coded correctly; everything functions. When a programmer makes a "mis-programming" somewhere or when a programmer writes a bad code - everything is corrupted. Once identified where the bad code is; rectified - the system regains its functionality.

Our "mind map" works the same way. It can easily be corrupted with just a few "bad codes" that would impair our authentic functionality in life.

Our "mind map" CAN be reprogrammed to regain our authenticity. Life is mysterious and your authentic soul within that accompanied you to this life will never stop nudging you when you are off your authentic route. It will nudge you to find that "bad code" within you and force you to "re-write" the code to put you back to your authentic path for this life.

When our authentic path is in line; PEACE within evolves; darkness turns to LIGHT; confusion turns to CLARITY; emptiness turns to CONTENTMENT; sadness turns to HAPPINESS; discouragement turns to EMPOWERMENT and hatred turns to ACCEPTANCE, FORGIVENESS and LOVE.

ARE you LIVING with AUTHENTIC you?
What's your "mind map" like?

How has your "mind map" tainted the AUTHENTIC YOU? 
What are you doing about that?

Parents - How are you "programming" your child?

Are you aware of what have you imprinted unconsciously?

Published on: Dec 16, 2009 @ 12:25