Opportunity to Learn/Grow or Opportunity to Blame?

When something goes wrong in life; what is your most common first reaction? Do you react with the thought that the incident is an opportunity for you to learn and grow within yourselves or do you take it as an opportunity to blame inward or outwardly - i.e. blaming yourself or others or both? I would bet that most people's very first reaction leans towards the latter.

Blaming outwardly lets you relieve yourself from any kind of responsibilities. Taking responsibility by blaming yourself endlessly - punching yourself over and over again leads to a traumatized soul within. We can make ourselves the greatest punching bag and be our meanest punchers but how durable are we? Blaming gives power to the situation to be blown out of proportion. Blaming is a road to powerlessness and despair. Blaming leads to a dead end doom road that disconnects YOU from your TRUE SELF, your ENERGY source - the POWER within you to make things right and work for you that creates positive greatness within radiating outward to build positive bridges to positive relationships with yourself, others and mother nature.

Our perspectives in such incidents are so important in creating the next outcome - within ourselves and outwardly. Every incident that goes wrong lies wisdom within for us to learn about ourselves on a deeper level - connecting with our "SELF" within as well as for us to learn about others involved. Coming from a perspective of learning gives you the POWER to sort things out in your life and in troubled situations with greater clarity and balance to tackle a situation/person. Every action taken is wisdom to our truth within - our limitations, our real needs, our real strength within and our reality in our lives within and externally. It is wisdom about others - their limitations, their real needs, their real strengths within and their realities in their lives within and externally. 

Which PERSPECTIVE do you hold when things go wrong?"Learn" or "Blame"?
Are you MAINTAINING your power within or GIVING AWAY your power?How hard are you "punching" yourself and others?

 Published on: Aug 26, 2009 @ 20:10